Rainy days and mondays…
Ξ October 6th, 2008 | → | ∇ life |
where does the weekend go? honestly, you blink and they’re gone. before you know it we’re back at work behind the register, wiping down the same counter you do everyday. if you’re not careful, you end up in autopilot, without so much as a thought to what you’re doing.
but how do you break a pattern like that? or do you? I mean the work gets done, you get paid, then you’re released into the world again. only, you have to come back tomorrow, and do it all over again. where do you draw the line between work, life, and solitude. currently, im a little stuck between the first and the last, with only sparse fragments of the second when and where I can get them. its my curse for now but, fingers crossed, i’ll find the happy medium somewhere in there.
in other news, im currently blogging from work. the café doesn’t open until 11 so im cleaning odds and ends, occasionally flipping my phone open and jotting down a few more lines. reading over my last post, I remembered how good it feels to get some of the thoughts down on paper, or in this case, digital paper. its almost therapeutic. so few people in the world are even worth talking to. its gotten to the point where its become impossible to pretend anyone is even listening. have we become so immune to faked interest that even when someone actually cares, we automatically assume they are insincere? it starts a vicious cycle, bouncing between personas. one, pushing everyone away, fearing that anyone who gets close is either after something or manipulating you for their own personal gain. the other sits alone in the dark at night, deprived of affection because of the actions of the first. to compensate, we search out for anyone who we can, throwing our hearts at them in a desperate attempt at humanity. naturally, it ends badly, only reenforcing the cycle, teaching us that humans have become cold, heartless, and self-serving. another habit to break I guess, but where do you start? which do you interupt first? do you magically pretending that there is good left in the world, or does that imaginary land only make you a hypocrit because you’re lying to yourself and everyone around you? maybe you end the cycle by continuing to doubt everyone and at night we search for a way to hide from our need to be with someone.
some of us work late at the office to distract ourselves from that little voice. other drink that voice into oblivion along with any other conscious thoughts. and some of us can’t quite ignore the voice or drown it out. infact, we encourage it, embolden it, push it to the limit of imagination, in hopes we’ll burn ourselves out. blow the emotional fuse that sparks so many problems when unchecked. and by morning, we’ve done so much damage to our minds that we don’t even remember our heads hitting the pillow. and we don’t want to because we know the thoughts in our mind are so hopeful and unrealistic that we just couldn’t deal with it everyday.
I guess that is a lot of people’s problem. we become jekyl and hydes. our inner desires masked to protect our, and we take it to such an extreme we come off as the exact opposite of who we are. over time, we become the mask. in essence we’re killing ourselves to protect ourselves.
its all cycles. patterns. expected outcomes where you balance the gain and the loss only to really break even. but its not even. we put so much work into juggling the two that by days end, we’re exhausted. its like our economy really. we keep shoveling money in, in hopes of getting money back. maybe we just need to crash and start over. maybe we all need to remember where we started, and build something safe and stable, with a sturdy foundation, wary of the preditory lender, or the boy who says he wears his heart on his sleeve. both are so risky, it’s no wonder we’re in the state we’re in.
falling in love has become a job. one that pays shit, with long hours and no benefits. cycles. everything repeating. love becomes work, work leaves you exhausted, and in our restless sleep, we’re reminded, more like haunted, by dreams of love. so when we wake, we search it out. punch the same old time clock and end up behind the register wiping down the same counter you do everday.
is it the weekend yet?